The Beatin' Path

Sing On, Jeannie

She loved to sing…and sing she did.

We were rolling through Los Angeles in August 2006 with the Tim McGraw/Faith Hill “Soul2Soul II" tour.  I had a free window for lunch one day, as our crew was still busy constructing the stage for our evening show.  Our hotel was around the corner from a cool little diner, so Jeannie Kauffman and Jen Ringler met me there.

It was my first time meeting the two of them.  We had a mutual friend in Jennifer Brusstar, the president of the Tug McGraw Foundation.  Jeannie had the inauspicious occasion to come to know us following her diagnosis of a glioblastoma – a brain tumor.  I do a lot of work with the Foundation and serve on the board of directors, but more importantly to Jeannie…I’m a musician.

So was she.  An impassioned singer and songwriter, she shared her gift of song in many a California coffee house.  She found many friends and fans along the way, even scoring as a Top Ten finalist in a Lilith Fair Talent search and appearing on the VH-1 music channel.

That day, in that diner, she sang a song for me.  Right there in the lobby, she slung on her guitar that she had conveniently carried in with her and sang her heart out.  Stopping some people halfway through the slurp of a soda, others in the midst of swallowing their hamburger. 

Sang her heart out.  Awesome.

As she grew through her battle with her tumor, her music took on more meaning.  Her songs came to speak of inspiration, of hope, of life.  When she joined us to perform her original song, “All In For A Cure” at the Tug McGraw Foundation Gala in November 2006, she embodied through song what Tug shared in spirit: ya gotta believe.

I had the privilege of running in honor of Jeannie as one of the first Team McGraw marathon runners last November 4 in the 2007 ING New York City Marathon.  Jeannie was a terrific cheerleader, helping me to raise funds for brain tumor research and rooting for me from across the country.

Sadly, Jeannie has since moved on, having lost her struggle on February 7, 2008.

While bittersweet, I count myself fortunate to call her a friend, and today, on her birthday, I look forward to feeling her joyous and unflappable smile as I run again in her memory…somewhere down the road.

Happy birthday, girl.  Sing on.
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Super Tuesday 2008

They call it Super Tuesday. It’s the biggest voting day regarding the selection of both the Republican and Democratic candidates for president of the United States.

I voted first thing this morning. Including the standing in line, it took all of twenty minutes. Not a real tax on a busy day – twenty minutes to cast my vote toward the leadership of this country.

Not a problem; I’ll make the time.

Now I’m not one of those “everybody should vote” people. I’m just not. I don’t think folks should go pull a lever, push a button, or sign a ballot if they don’t know for whom they are voting. If you aren’t making a reasonably informed vote, stay home. I’m fine with that.

So learn about the candidates. We’ll never know everything, but we can try. We can do some homework. Too many people made too many sacrifices to make sure we can do this freely to cheapen it by flipping a coin.

Think for yourself…but really THINK. Don’t vote how Oprah tells you to, or Sylvester Stallone tells you to, if you don’t know what their candidates stand for. Don’t vote for what they SAY…but consider what they have DONE.

Don’t vote for a Mormon because he’s a Mormon, or a woman because she’s a woman, or a preacher because he’s a preacher. That just ain’t the way to go.

At the end of the day, you don’t hire a plumber because his business card says “plumber.” You look for references. Track records. SUCCESSFUL experience…not just EXPERIENCE. Plenty of bad plumbers have been plumbers for a long time; they just never got very good at it.

And we’ve got a lot of crap to deal with…so do your homework.

You’re darn right it matters.